[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/nova-jiskra-ve-vztahu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/nova-jiskra-ve-vztahu\/","headline":"Nov\u00e1 jiskra ve vztahu","name":"Nov\u00e1 jiskra ve vztahu","description":"\u010cas, \u010das, \u010das. Kolikr\u00e1t vyslov\u00edme „nem\u00e1m te\u010f \u010das“, „nest\u00edh\u00e1m“, „pozd\u011bji“ a podobn\u00e9 fr\u00e1ze. Mnoho vztah\u016f se bort\u00ed pr\u00e1v\u011b z d\u016fvodu, \u017ee na sebe nem\u00e1me \u010das. \u010casto se rad\u011bji d\u00edv\u00e1me do mobil\u016f ne\u017e do o\u010d\u00ed. V\u0161e chceme hned, v hlav\u011b m\u00e1me p\u0159ehr\u0161el informac\u00ed. Zpomalte! Odlo\u017ete mobil a pod\u00edvejte se partnerovi do o\u010d\u00ed, poslouchejme se, usm\u00edvejme se na sebe. […]","datePublished":"2020-02-14","dateModified":"2023-05-22","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/8e6cbe5510d042e6a0b15162e198f2fd22eed76a4b5a1734d2174c652daccabc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/8e6cbe5510d042e6a0b15162e198f2fd22eed76a4b5a1734d2174c652daccabc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ilusion.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a370936_w4285_t1582615476.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a370936_w4285_t1582615476.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/nova-jiskra-ve-vztahu\/","about":["\u017deny"],"wordCount":493,"articleBody":"\u010cas, \u010das, \u010das. Kolikr\u00e1t vyslov\u00edme „nem\u00e1m te\u010f \u010das“, „nest\u00edh\u00e1m“, „pozd\u011bji“ a podobn\u00e9 fr\u00e1ze. Mnoho vztah\u016f se bort\u00ed pr\u00e1v\u011b z d\u016fvodu, \u017ee na sebe nem\u00e1me \u010das. \u010casto se rad\u011bji d\u00edv\u00e1me do mobil\u016f ne\u017e do o\u010d\u00ed. V\u0161e chceme hned, v hlav\u011b m\u00e1me p\u0159ehr\u0161el informac\u00ed. Zpomalte! Odlo\u017ete mobil a pod\u00edvejte se partnerovi do o\u010d\u00ed, poslouchejme se, usm\u00edvejme se na sebe. Ne\u017e dr\u017eet v ruce mobil dr\u017eme rad\u011bji partnerovu ruku. \u010casto zapom\u00edn\u00e1me na ty drobn\u00e9 projevy l\u00e1sky a sympatie, kter\u00fdmi je oby\u010dejn\u00e9 pohlazen\u00ed, obj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed a milov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud si \u0159ekneme, \u017ee na to nem\u00e1m \u010das, zkusme se pod\u00edvat pravd\u011b do o\u010d\u00ed. Kolikr\u00e1t denn\u011b v\u011bnujeme sv\u016fj dotek mobiln\u00edmu telefonu a kolik dotek\u016f v\u011bnujeme sv\u00e9mu partnerovi \u010di partnerce. Ve v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b vztah\u016f vyhraje mobil. Zkusme tedy partnerovi v\u011bnovat alespo\u0148 stejn\u00fd po\u010det dotyk\u016f.\tDal\u0161\u00edm probl\u00e9mem je \u0161patn\u00e1 komunikace. Ano, v\u011bt\u0161inou mus\u00edme \u0159e\u0161it provozn\u00ed v\u011bci, zda d\u011bti maj\u00ed \u00fakoly, co koupit tch\u00fdni k narozenin\u00e1m. Ale zavzpom\u00ednejte, co jste si \u0159\u00edkali nebo psali ve zpr\u00e1v\u00e1ch na za\u010d\u00e1tku va\u0161eho vztahu. Zpr\u00e1va o tom, \u017ee se na sv\u016fj prot\u011bj\u0161ek t\u011b\u0161\u00edte, jist\u011b vykouzl\u00ed \u00fasm\u011bv na rtu. A pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b mu bude jedno, jestli ve\u010de\u0159e bude tepl\u00e1 \u010di studen\u00e1. Zamyslete se, co bychom cht\u011bli od sv\u00e9ho prot\u011bj\u0161ku sly\u0161et a sami mu to \u0159ekneme. Odezva na sebe jist\u011b nenech\u00e1 dlouho \u010dekat.\tSousta z n\u00e1s po p\u0159\u00edchodu z pr\u00e1ce automaticky pust\u00ed televizi, r\u00e1dio nebo po\u010d\u00edta\u010d. V\u017edy\u0165 je to jen kulisa. \u010casto opravdu pln\u011b nevn\u00edm\u00e1me slova nebo obraz, ale stejn\u011b p\u0159ijde okam\u017eik, kdy n\u00e1s informace zaujme a my zapomeneme na rozhovor s partnerem. Nau\u010dme se pou\u0161t\u011bt tyto p\u0159\u00edstroje pouze ve vymezen\u00e9m \u010dase. Zkusme si pov\u00eddat jen tak bez \u0161umu televize nebo r\u00e1dia.\t\tPokud to v\u00e1zne i b\u011bhem spole\u010dn\u00fdch intimn\u00edch chvil, tak je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 se p\u0159ipravit. Mobil vypneme nebo alespo\u0148 zti\u0161\u00edme, stejn\u011b tak nech\u00e1me vypnutou televizi a r\u00e1dio. Obl\u00edben\u00e1 hudba m\u016f\u017ee naopak hodn\u011b pomoci. P\u00edse\u0148, p\u0159i kter\u00e9 jste spolu tan\u010dili, l\u00edbali se, \u010di milovali, dok\u00e1\u017ee z\u00e1zraky. K tomu spole\u010dn\u00e1 koupel dopln\u011bn\u00e1 vonn\u00fdmi esencemi a kr\u00e1sn\u00fd ve\u010der se jist\u011b dostav\u00ed.\tPo p\u0159echodu do lo\u017enice zkusme oko\u0159enit zajet\u00fd stereotyp. Po n\u011bjak\u00e9 dob\u011b pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b v\u00edme, co a jak partnera na\u017ehav\u00ed. Ale zkusme upustit uzdu fantazii, odhodit stud a p\u0159ekvapit sebe i prot\u011bj\u0161ek n\u011b\u010d\u00edm neobvykl\u00fdm.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.5\/5 - (11 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Nov\u00e1 jiskra ve vztahu","item":"https:\/\/www.ilusion.cz\/nova-jiskra-ve-vztahu\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]